Updated: Aug 9
For everyone wondering if they are good enough, you should know that being perfect is never easy. Beginner subs are often lost and have no idea how they could improve and become better in this area.
Furthermore, they often look for a dominant to make them better and somehow fix them. In all truth, being submissive is not easy, and it requires a lot of work.
It’s normal that you don’t want to do something, or that you find it too extreme. And the reality is that you don’t have to. Real dominants know that subs have feelings and wishes as everyone else, and surrendering your control to such a person will be beneficial for both of you.
Finally, you will need to work, both mentally and physically, until it becomes your lifestyle. But if you find submission fulfilling, you will never regret surrendering full control to that special someone. They will know how to both reward and punish everything that you do for them, and it will be an incredible adventure for both of you.