I’ve always been into Primal play: The kind of play where no power exchange dynamic is certain, everything is a battle, the struggle is rough and dirty and sometimes people do actually get hurt. Maybe it’s because I get to be both a sadist and a masochist that I love fighting oh so very much.
Wrestling, grappling, submissions, punching, kicking, slapping, grabbing, pulling, head locks, leg locks, arm bars, pins, choke outs, pressure points, scissors, lift and carries… Oh my! The process of the battle is just so intoxicating; The rush of anxiety at the beginning, the stress of the battle itself, the glory of winning, the embarrassment of losing and the afterglow courtesy of the endorphins racing through my body as a result of intense physical activity. Nothing else quite captures me the same way as a physical power struggle does because nothing else seems to outline both roles so boldly while at the same time leaving them both up for grabs. The dominant party is only the dominant when they are winning or have won and the next second could be completely different; Dominance must be won or earned. Which quite honestly, is a concept I think more people involved in D/s and power exchange should consider or even be aware of.
Mistress to be dominated by you it's a dream. A dream that a slave can give himself 100% to the fantasy of the Mistress. 🙏🙏
I remember having this struggle with a dominant woman I had known for years, but was unable to hookup due to our mutual situations. Once we were free it was almost assumed she would be top, but this struggle she initiated resulting in her submission to me. The resulting dynamic that followed was one of the most rewarding I experienced in my life. I never expected or wanted to be her master, but we both loved it!
I don’t know if l’ll ever win a battle... But l will enjoy the process of being dominated ❤️
Interesting concept. Especially if I am restrained some way..